Our expert says:
I agree with the others--- stop allowing this crumb to use you. If he has a girlfriend on the side, maybe he thinks you're "wife material" but he is NOT, repeat NOT, "husband material". Don't think of going to Durban, away from your personal support system and family, and more at the mercy of his selfishness. Don't know if you're coming or going ? Simple. Just tell him that you are GOING.
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