Our expert says:
You and your sister are diferent people, and likely to react differently to various experiences. Enjoy your own valid reactions, rather than lesen them for not being more similar to those of others. A meeting of the families is a good idea, but unlikely to be a great time for more intimiate one-on-one connections - you probably do need some time together, just you and him. Maybe you could e-mail him or write a letter summarizing your life experiences so far ( not too lengthy or heavy ! )amd how you feel about him, what you'd like to know about him. Maybe suggest he could write, too, or leave it open to later discussion. Try not to expect too much so you can enjoy what is, without pressurizing either of you. let it take the time it needs. Is there something wrong with you ? Only a bad case of worried normal.
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