Our expert says:
Love can be uncomfortable, can't it ? And with a long-distance relationship, it's hard for either of you to be sure of what's going on at the other side. There are many reasons why she might have been out of contact for a few days, most of them nothing worth bothering about ( gee, if it was Telkom providing her phone service, that would happen a few times every year as a routine. !) You say that you have faith and trust in her --- yet you feel uneasy. If she is the woman you think she is, and the woman you love, surely she will not accept the adelaide guy's lures, and won't get Adelaide. And meanwhile, why don't you work on a diet and some gym, and take care of your overweight, and give her a treat when you meet each other next year ?
And also, as ... wisely says, long-distance relationships are tough anyway, especially when you two haven't even actually met yet. Don't set yourself up for hurt by having hopes that are unrealistially high about who she will turn out to be and what will or won't happen between the two of you. Don't put all of your eggs in one basket --- work on developing other friends, too, as any relationship that is too exclusive can develop its own problems, too
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