Our expert says:
Its quite easy to get caught up in self-fulfilling prophecies. If you anticipate that your fiends will push you away, you will behave differently and in ways that would increase the chance that they will feel you don't want them round and thus withdraw. And when you try too hard and desperately to find that man you deserve, that sense of desperation can actually drive them away, too. Sounds also like you might have a background depression increasing your pessimism. Good local CBT style counselling should do the trick ! Get a shrink's assessment and avice in detail, as you deserve the best
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