Our expert says:
Fankly, any relationship in which you feel scared of your partner, or fear violence from him or her, is a bad elationship. Love is great, but any relationship in which one insists that they "cannot live without X", is also a risky one.
here is something strange in the pattern you describe, of a guy who's available during the week, but disappears at the weekends, making various lame excuses for this ---it sounds as if he's up to something on those weekends which he doesn't want you to know about. And if he is close to you with no interest in sex, one would indeed wonder whether his sexual interests are being satisfied somewhere else, by someone else.
But it hardly deals with the real problem at hand, for you to start up a sexual relationship with someone else, and to consider it justifiable. Two relationships a the same time is never a ood idea. Don't you need to sit down, perhaps with some friend or family member around to keep things cool, and talk this through properly with your bf, so you can each understand what's going on ? So ar, it just sounds like a bunch of people all exploiting each other. As tina Turner sang, "What's Love got to do with it ? "
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