Our expert says:
Whichever religion you and the woman believe in, getting her pregnant before marriage is surely not approved of in either of them. You were not forced to get her pregnant. You should either have stood up to your parents and insisted that you loved her and WOULD marry her ; or face the fact that you have chosen to defer to your parents and ended the relationship. You tried to have it both ways, and as so often happens, managed to get it neither way.
But here is an unmarried woman you made pregnant, and you are more worried about upsetting your rigid parents than caring for the woman you say you love, and for the child ?
After one avoidable pregnancy ended in a miscariage, you continued to have sex with her, apparently without proper contraception, and now she is pregnant again ? Don't you learn from experience ?
You say you "can't live" with upsetting your parents, but apparently you CAn live with deeply hurting the woman you say you love, and your unborn child ?
Maybe a counsellor could help you to see what your moral duties are to this woman and child, and to make the right decisions and do the right things. And to be a man and face your real responsibilities, which are not to protect your parents' feelings by false pretenses. Otherwise, you are running into highly predictable consequences of thoughtless actions you repeatedly indulged in.
This was apparently also an unwise relationship with someone at work who is junior to you, so he could probably very justifiably take action against your for sexual harassment or otherwise unprofessional conduct.
Grow up, and practice being a real man. That requires much more than mere sex
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