Our expert says:
Gosh, you have had an unfortunate sequence of illnesses and necessary treatments. It is not at all surprising that you thereafter felt hesitant about sexual activity, and this aspect of one's continuin life is so often neglected by even very good surgeons and physicians and others. Make sure you have consulted properly with your docors so that you know whether there is any significant risk of further problems, and if so, how they will be handled.
You may well have become discouraged and depressed, too, and depression amplifies any form of physical pain and makes it less beqrable --- just as proper treatment of depression reduces pain of any cause. ALso see a personal counsellor to help you deal more positively with all that you have had to bear, and to help you explore more ways not merely to please your husband,. but to be pleased yourself, as your own pleasure is still and will remain, important.
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