Our expert says:
I dont believe any of us can have any sympathy for your slut of a husband, who is exposing you to a significant risk of AIDS. Why not dump him ? he doesn't sound as if he's any benefit or help to you. He and your daughter are both adults, and totally responsible for the choices they make in life, and for their actions and the results of those. His drinking is irrelevant --- if he finds he does stupid things when drunk, and can't remember them afterwards, the solution is terribly simple --- to stop drinking.
As for the child, here's the innocent party, who does deserve your love and care, as the mother sounds selfishly incapable of giving what he needs. Maybe th Welfare authorities can advise as to whether she is a fit mother, and whether there cannot be some assistance provided to you, financially and emotionally, to help you to help the child.
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