Our expert says:
No, nothing at all wrong with you. many of us find ourselves in similar situations. Kassandra's remarks are wise and helpful. Psychologists in counselling can offer good advice and training in Assertiveness, and in helping one understand and experience the difference between being assertive ( standing up for oneself when this is appropriate ) and being aggressive ( being pushy, even if, maybe especially if, one is actually in the wrong --- like your unapprciative club menber !).
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