Posted by: ayanda | 2012/12/07

lack of interest in sex

i get bored when i have to sleep with my fiance and we are fighting a lot

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Hi Ayanda
Your relationship lies at the heart of your problem. Unresolved issues like anger, resentment and lack of trust will all have a negative impact on your sex life. In a committed relationship such as yours you need to talk to each other and understand each other before the kind of intimacy required for a satisfying sexual connection can exist. Honesty and clear communication will help both of you open up sexually and reintroduce excitement and desire back into your relationship. Your boredom is unlikely to be a result of what the two of you are sexually capable of, more likely a symptom of problems in your relationship.

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Posted by: XXX | 2012/12/10

If you have both tried to get the relationship " working"  and it is still stuttering along,you might want to think about your future together and possibly move on.

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Posted by: Gratten | 2012/12/07

If you get bored when you " have to"  sleep with your fiance, then why are you in a relationship? Did you " have to"  sleep with him when you first met, or did you want to?

Think first before you become engaged to someone, and then get bored with them. That''s not a marriage, it''s not love. Don''t complain because you consented to the marriage.

Marriage is not a cheap Las Vegas drive through. Do it only if you want to, not because you have to

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