Our expert says:
Nobody else can make decisions like this for you. And they're not easy decisions. In life, you often decide to make trade-offs - sometimes achieving one of the things you want makes it difficult or impossible to achieve another of the things you want. SOme people value having and raising children in a close and loving way as the best option of all. Some would prefer, as apparently you do, marrying someone with a rich and interesting life-style including world travel - into which raising children would really not fit.
And pregnancy and child-birth are complex and not always entirely pleasant experiences, which one endures because the result is something we really desire.
Its a matter of priorities ; and you fears of pregnancy / childbirth may be based on realities or on lack of full understanding of relity. Do see a good counsellor together to work on mutually understanding what you both want and will be mos pleased by, to understand the advantages and disadvantages of alternative decisions ; and see a midwife or even gynae for information so you can better understand what bearing a child really involves.
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