Our expert says:
Dear me indeed. By all means let off steam, if that helps.
SWouldn't it be worth it to make it clear to him in a discssion, that the way he is running your lives is a problem for you and causes you great irritation and discomfort ---and suggest that you get involved, together, in marriage counselling ? These issues ought to be practical to sort out, but of course they won't solve themselves.
He sounds like a rather "driven" guy, over-working and perhaps obsessive about what he does, and not thinking of how his behaviours impact on you and the kids. Counselling can help to enrol him in the interesting idea of becoming even more "perfect" at being a good husband and dad, as he seems to be wrapped up in trying to be perfect at work.
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