Our expert says:
COntinuing to bail him out when he seems to have as much business sense as a cup of coffee doesn't solve anything. You both need good financial advise, from a bank, about sorting out your debts, and he needs a job where he can earn reliable income and not lose it in business schemes where he seems to have no talent, espeially in these difficult times. But the resumed drinking and the abusive aggression, is not acceptable.
I tend to agree with Tango --- maybe marriage counselling could help, and he needs personal help with his inability to cope with his problems except in such maladaptive ways. If he refuses this reasonable proposal, then discuss with a personal coujnsellor your options, and act so as to best protect yourself and the kids. Don't keep enabling him to keep on failing
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