Our expert says:
One of the often overlooked problems about relationships which form between people in their 30's and 40's, if they haven't been in a close live-in relationship before, or at least not for some time, is that they are set in their ways of being single and independent and unwilling to make the essential compromises required to live together happilly.
But there's no point in being single, but together.
There is no sincere relationship between you if she insists on going out late into the night with her male friends - people in relationships don't do that. Her excuses are feeble and unconvincing - if you're in a proper relationship, neither she not you wander off with others whether to a party or for "conversation". If she gets invited to a party, she tells her "friends' that she is in a relationship with you, and either you BOTh go to the party, or neither of you. And what is a woman of 36 doing at a 21st birthday party of someone she doesn't know very well, someone almost young enough to be her daughter ?
She sounds like an aging juvenile, with no respect for herself or you, and likely to bring you continuing grief. Rather end the relationship and move on to someone actually interested in you
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