Our expert says:
This is pathological jealousy and needs treatment --- you don't describe having any reasonable basis for this all-consuming jealousy, which sounds as if it is becoming a full-time occupation for you. And behaviour like this drives away good partners. See a good local shrink asap for assessment, treatment advice, and counselling. FIO is right, you are sabotaging this relationship. You are acting out a self-fulfilling prophecy, having such powerful expectations of something going wrong, that you are unnecessarily forcing them to go wrong in the way you expect.
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