Our expert says:
it is fair to expect fidelity DURING a marriage, but grossly unfair to expect fidelity before you even met the guy. It is natural to some extent, but not fair to expect him to have not had a relationship with someone else before he married you. There is no good reason to hate this women or this child --- neither of them did anything to hurt or harm you --- you're letting yourself feel hirt, long after the event. See a counsellor and work on this and on your feelings of insecurity.
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