Our expert says:
It depends on what "things" he tells her and not you. If they're run-of-the-mill "friend" and office things, where's the problem ? If they're deep, intimate things from within your relationship with him, then this is indeed maladaptive.
Maybe you decided too soon that you were "in love" rather than good friends ?
Make it clear to him which things between you you want to be kept between you and not shared.
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