Our expert says:
Apparently you are content to be used as just one of his women ( you know of one other, but can't be sure there aren't more ) and prefer to accept his stories and excuses, rather than take responsibility for looking after yourself and heading for someone who will be honest with you and for whom you will be the only partner. So, he fancies having a child with you ? That's not good for you or the potential child - it just might make the selfish guy feel clever.
What on earth makes you feel he will change ( this arangement suits him perfectly ) ? What on earth makes you fantasize that this relationship is going ANYWHERE AT ALL ? From his point of view, it's already just where he needs it - why would he want to go anywhere else ?
Choose to stick with your fantasies, and see how long it takes before the disappointment of reality sinks in ; or make a braver move to face reality and move on, for someone actually wanting a more honest relationship with you.
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