Our expert says:
It's not as rare as you might think. Men are generally content about being touched "there", and through masturbation have grown to like that feeling. But especially with a puritanical, often but not necessarily ultra religious upbringing, they may have got disturbing messages about a woman's sexual parts as being taboo, dirty, even almost dangerous, as something he SHOULD NOT touch. Not true, of course, but one believes what one has been brought up to believe. Counselling, on his own or in couples counselling, could help, but he may not see this as the problem it is, or as needing intervention
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