Our expert says:
You are absolutely right that infrequency can have an impact on a man's ability to delay ejaculation. If nothing else is addressed in the relationship, then you could either try to reduce the intensity by masturbating more regularly or you could get a script from you GP for a low dose of an SSRI (antidepressants)which have the side-effect of slowing down orgasm.
It sounds, however, that your wife is struggling with low libido and this has meant that all intimacy has been compromised because she is afraid it will lead to sex. This aspect can be addressed relatively easily as long as you are both willing to work on it. I would recommend that you see a sex therapist who can help you both!
Claire - SASHA
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