Our expert says:
Pain during sex is a fairly common complaint from a lot of women and one of the biggest reasons for that is that penetration happens way before the woman is relaxed enough to accommodate the penis. Spending more time on foreplay could assist with the process of getting her ready. Furthermore are there different techniques that could help – such as Women on top or spooning, both of these techniques places the woman in the position to control the depth of the penetration.
Furthermore it is often found that women tend to find it a less pleasurable to give blow jobs and many also complain about their jaws getting tired / hurting. There are however some techniques that cold be helpful - One of the best ways to give oral sex is to also include your hands. Taking your hand, make a fist around the shaft of your lover's penis with your little finger resting on his pubic bone. Then at the same time take your mouth and go up and down the head and upper shaft of his penis while you go up and down with your hand at the same time. This gives the same sensation of you "deep throating" him (taking him deep into your throat). Adding different combinations with both hands and your mouth make for creativity and fun!
You are welcome to phone our helpline – 0860100262 where you could be assisted in finding a practitioner as close as possible to you.
Furthermore you are welcome to visit the following website for any more sexual health information and assignments that could be helpful: www.sexualhealth.co.za
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