Posted by: sally | 2009/08/14

is this normal, worried

me and my husband are seperated for 4 months, i met this guy on the train a week ago. we chat and are somehow drawn to each other. tuesday night after a week we had sex. this is unlike me . i ve been married for 13 years. 42 years old and only slept with 2 guys. this is my third.
is there something wrong with me, as i never done something like this before.
this guy is not even atractive, but there is just something about him. he is not even the type i like, he is totaly different to the type i normally like.
i am worried as i cant seem to get this guy out of my mind.
he is 32 years old.very well spoken.i dont see him every day on the train.only now and then.

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After all those years o marriage, maybe you're lonely ? Sex with someone you hardly know is, you know well, not safe nor a good idea. Its not that there's anything wrong with you, and you know it wasn't a good idea. Mabe he seemed much more special than he was, because you needed someone to say nice things about you and treat you as though you were special ? Be cautious, though, and don't make him seem far more special, because of your need for companionship

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