Our expert says:
I got muddled in your message, as it sounded at first that your 5-year-old is having the affair with the Ex, which sounds most peculiar ! But it appears that you, married and with kids, have chosen most unwisely to have an affair with a married man with kids. Have you thought about how very many people will be hurt badly when the affair becomes known to others affected by it ? Its not strictly a mid-life crisis, more like a mid-wife crisis. Pull yourself together and realize that such affairs hurt everyone. If he's happy to cheat on his wife and kids, he'll cheat on you, too. You know you should end the affair --- why not just go ahead and end it ?
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