Our expert says:
Sorry to hear about your dilemma. It happens. Some men are very sensitive about the idea of bringing up another man's child ; some are very happy about the idea. It's hard to predict. That's why it's wise, as Me says, to be straightforward about this from the start. --- as you say you did. Maybe he didn't fully understand the strength of his own felings in this respect, until later in the developing relatonship. But from the sound of it, with him having indicated that he doesn't want to proceed, and him having moved away, it's over, and it'd be wise to move on. As TEW says, you want a man who can love you AND your child, and this guy doesn't seem to be the one you need.
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