Our expert says:
Abusers very, very, rarely change, so don't wait for it. If he is still abusing you, plan to leave. Call POWA for advice and support so as to plan a way to do it safely, to look after yourself and the child, who is not benefitted by having an abusive dad around. You never took any vow to hang around and accept abuse from an abuser --- and an abuser like him, has already broken the spirit of all those vows. I don't see any reason for you to imagine that everything will EVER be Ok.
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