Our expert says:
You both sound rather young, and she, like her mother, sound raher self-centred and uncompromising, and inconsiderate. But on the other hand, maybe you're pressing too close, and she does want "own time" as Dampies says, outside of studying and shop. Don't you, really, need some "own time" of your own ? At an earlier stage of a relationship, I'd be all with Dampies, but if your gf has agreed to be engaged to you, formally, then she is being less than reasonable. Indeed, if her studies must take priority at this time, etc, why did she get engaged now ?
And it sounds as if she ( with mom ) has made a set of rules that don't take you into account --- don't you need to sit and talk this through, and make sure that both of you have the same idea about what sort of relationship this is ?
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