Our expert says:
Well, A, welcome to " a place like this" ! I hope you don't feel you're slumming ! It does indeed sound as though he is, at such a young age, tending to give up. Some men are especially vulnerable and wounded by losing a job, and hard to encourage to take bolder steps towards finding new opportunities. As you point out, he was lazy even before marriage, so this is a reluctance to change the habits of a life-time, rather than a new problem, even if it is showing itself in a slightly different form. How would he respond to an ultimatum, of getting his act together or you move out ?
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