Our expert says:
It sounds as though you are fond, not of your actual bf, but of the man you want to turn him into. You want him to behave in ways he doesn't naturally behave. You don't describe and "normal" to get back to --- you're not talking about him having changed, but of him not being naturally the way you want him to be. Wouldn't you both be better off if you moved on ? Never base a relationship on the expectation that the person has to become something they're not already
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