Our expert says:
It seems that you are very unsatisfied with your sexual relationship with your husband. I would advise that you try to talk to him about this and to explain that while you enjoy having sex with him, you are left feeling unsatisfied and that your needs are not being met. It is sometimes useful to explain that the male and female have a different sexual response. You might explain that it is necessary for him to take time in order for you to get aroused. This arousal is necessary for women so that there can be adequate response and lubrication so that intercourse is not painful. This foreplay as you mentioned, can take the form of sensual touching. It might be necessary to explain where you prefer to be touched. This need not take the form of oral sex if he is adversed to that, but all over body touching and not just to the more sensitive genital areas or breats initially until you are aroused. For further information please consult SASHA’s website at www.sexualhealth.qw.co.za/dru. For referral to a professional in your vicinity, please send an email to email@example.com
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