Our expert says:
Why not see a relationship counsellor together to explore whether you can get this relationship working well for both of you --- and if not, then at least to part knowing better how to avoid such problems in the future ?
And either way, he must pay maintenance for the child he chose to father, and to realize that this is NOT lobola
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