Our expert says:
Funny, but what we expect from a relationship really does vary. Some of us never ever expect anything from a relationship but love, affection and encouragement, and never expect to be "spoiled and given money". In fact, whatever's to blame for this, I think expecting money to be given in a relationship makes it more like prostitution than love.
And how does it fit with modern feminist ideas that a woman expects the man to give her money, but doesn't think she should give money to him ?
Its not essential to be broke by the middle of the month -many of us manage, and have to, to get through the month without going broke, not through being rich, but by being careful so much spending that is tempting isn't needed at all. Do you have to go to a restaurant for breakfast ? Can't you feed each other pleasantly at home ?
Its not that you don't have luck you just have a bunch of dumb, greedy, mercenary, superficial friends. Get better friends - that doesn't need to cost anything.
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