Our expert says:
It sounds as though you needed to really do this within the relationship - why should you take the blame for mistakes which are not yours, unless you were part of the problem or your response was inappropriate? By taking responsibility, you have prevented her from being responsible and possibly also left her feeling powerless (hard to believe given your description, I know, but trust me, it is still possible) because she's never made to face up to /able to take responsility for that which she has/has not done. It's understandable that you would need a break, because it must have been hard work - although some if it sounds like it was your own doing...
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