Posted by: ?????????? | 2008/10/30

is it an affair?

i met this amazing man a few months ago. we started off as friends but now we are quite intimate and we are having the best sex that i have ever had in my life.

when i met him we were both separated and currently undergoing divorce. our marriages were over spiritualy but not yet legally. does this mean that we are having an affair?

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Yes, that is an affair. Why does it seem as though its the definition that bothers you, rather than the behaviour itself ?

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Posted by: ????? | 2008/11/02

i nevr wanted to get divorce and it was never my choice. i also did not want to ever be with someone but unfortunately it happened! at first i was rude and arrogant and extremely irritated that someone has taken interest in me. is it my fault?

i wish to God that my husband didnt want adivorce - he was my everything but after spending a whole year without him - there is no marriage in that case.

i too used to be a very judgemental person - but now i just live each day as it comes and i realise that life isnt as clear cut as we would like it to be.

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Posted by: Tess | 2008/10/31

Some divorces take forever to finalize, so what is one supposed to do, wait? Carry on with your life, time waits for no one.

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Posted by: Kb | 2008/10/31

You were both seperated, so i dont see the problem. S

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Posted by: merilly | 2008/10/31

well all i can say is thank goodness you' re both getting divorced....

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Posted by: Sg | 2008/10/31

In the true sense of the word it is probably an affair but if your marriages were essentially already over then I don' t see why you could not move on.

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Posted by: yes | 2008/10/31

That is propably why mariages don' t work, because people rather invest in affairs or other people instead of working on ones mariage and the vows you made to GOD. Sorry if it isn' t the case with you, but this is just how I feel.

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Posted by: Miss Priss | 2008/10/31


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Posted by: Anonym | 2008/10/31

Perhaps but don' t let it bother you if both filled for divorce before being intimit.

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Posted by: James | 2008/10/31


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