Our expert says:
No not necessarily, there are some men who appear to enjoy the fantasy of seeing their girlfriend with another man; whether in fact the reality would be as good as the fantasy would need to be seen, but most importantly, the couple would need to think through how and whether they could manage the feelings evoked by this experience.
On the issue of his wish to have another man in the bed; even if he were suggesting that he wanted to participate in the threesome by exploring being sexual with another man, this also does not mean he is gay - some men do have sex with men but identify as heterosexual. Having sexual feelings for someone does not necessarily mean that an individual wants to act on those feelings or to 'be with' that person - relationships and orientation are a much more stable aspect of our persona, sexual feelings may also be stable, but they may also fluctuate some...
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