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Hi Sue and thanks for this post.
I'm quite confused here : correct me if I'm wrong but I recall that your partner isn't willing to come out. And yet you two live so intimately with her family that there seem to be very few boundaries. Her aged mother makes your bed? Somehow I'm finding it difficult to connect the dots here.
On another level, in all your posts I don't recall your saying anything positive about your partner or your relationship. In fact you seem angry, possibly passive-aggressive towards your partner.
At some point someone has to ask the question, "why are you still there?"
What is stopping you from moving on?
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