Our expert says:
Checking back in the archives of this forum, have you noticed how common is it for people, especially women, who allow themselves to become involved in an affair with a married person, soon get to bitterly regret doing so ?
OK what you have been doing has been extremely foolish, over an extended time. But you have not "messed up your entire life", and need not do so.
You know this liaison has been and is a Very Bad Idea, as is the unprotected sex ( what if you become pregnant ? Or if you catch an STD as he has been having other liaisons ? )
You know you need to stop this immediately and permanently. and you are able to do so.Use the assistance of a counsellor to help you do this and keep to this resolve.
Work with the counsellor / therapist to learn the lessons that must be learned, and to get your life back on track. And leave him to continue to be the actually unpleasant character he appears to be
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