Our expert says:
Sounds as though your husband has been neglectful and selfish towards you and perhaps also your son. Presumably he could pull himself together and look after your son while you made the visit to NZ ? Your husband shares responsibility for not being able to aford to take the boy along with you, but guilt is not appropriate or deserved if you take this rare opportunity to enjoy yourself for a short time.
Bon voyage, and enjoy the trip !
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