Our expert says:
Doesn't it sound as though your ex really needs therapy / counselling to deal with his neediness and related problems ? Daily contact a year later is not really a relationship that has ended - there can't be such common issues truly involving the kids and needing contact. And while he clings, he won't be able to form any other sustaining relationship.
Where he makes inappropriate contacts, not dealign with genuine and urgent matters relating to the kids, just ignore the contacts, telling him that you will need to do so, to be able to concentrate on your own life.
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