Our expert says:
He can only make you feel guilty if you allow him to do so. Of course, it will be hard at first to stop allowing him to do so, as this may have become a habit for you both. Your brothers should contribute far more to caring for your dad. Remember that indeed you ARe not doing anything wrong. He is grumbling, and this helps him to avoid responsibility for his own situation and mood.
Going to a psychologist could indeed help a lot, not only to make you feel better, but to help you devise better ways of dealing with him. You are not at all being silly, but being wise.
Remember, much of the reason why he is alone may be of his own making, and none of it is your fault. And deafness helps to make people isolated and irritable
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