Our expert says:
Obviously this bothers you, and you need an explanation for what has changed to drastically since last December. There can be physical reasons, related to the onset of some physical illness, or psychological factors, such as the beginning of depression or anxiety and serious stress at work. Or, frankly, this sort of thing can happen if he has become emotionally and sexually involved with someone else, so he is sexually occupied elsewhere, and has little left for you when he gets home.
A calm, unemotional ( men get frightened by emotions and feel very sensitive about their sexual abilities ) chat, about how much you have enjoyed your sex life until recently, how excellent he was, and how you're puzzled about how and why things hanve changed, and how to help him to get things right again, might help. If he is willing to face the fact that there has been a negative change and that help is needed, then a psychologist or counsellor ( eg through FAMSA )with an interest in helping with sexual problems, would be useful.
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