Our expert says:
Sounds like a situation deserving you both getting involved in mariage counselling, as it seems to be based in the sexual and emotional aspects of your relationship. From the sound of it, it's not simply one night of unsatisfying sex that left you feeling so odd and unhappy, but what that suggested or represented to you. And thence those feelings of concern and uncertainty. And of course after a night of disturbed sleep, we dont function as well as usually.
I wonder whether maybe he feels guilty and embarassed about not being so able to satisfy you sexually, so he doesn't like talking about it, whereas there are many ways in which he can be helped to function far better, not only for your sake, but for his own, to enjoy himself more. I doubt that there's anything physically wrong with him at all.
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