Our expert says:
First, Check the archives, and find how often we hear exactly this question --- that's how common it is for someone's personal insecurity and low self-esteem to lead them towards spoiling a fine loving relationship, through excessive and unnecessary jealousy. Men like to look at other women, not because the woman with them isn't good enough --- they like to look at other cars, even if they're driving the best car available. And sometimes they're looking because the other women looks nasty in some way, not only out of admiration or delight !
Why not start with the counselling, first, and your counsellor may well be able to recommend some books specially suited to you. And I am planning to build a book review section here, with those I find I can specially recommend, and links to enable you to buy them easily online.
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