Our expert says:
OK, it makes excellent sense for you to see a psychologist / counsellor yourself, and to consider marriage counselling together. Its nonsense for any husband to "not like it" if his wife sees a counsellor to deal,with problems she is experiencing --- maybe he'd prefer marriage counselling done together, if he is perhaps worried about whatever you might be saying to the counsellor when he is not present ?
And its crazy for people NOT to see a counsellor when they need one ! And don't run yourself down so much. Whatever the problems are, it doesn't sound as though he's helping much at present.
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