Our expert says:
Recognize that when you are unhappy in your marriage, you will be very vulnerable to being attracted by, and exploited by, other men. Rather try hard to fix whats wrong within the marriage with the aid of a marriage counsellor.
Dont make the big mistake of assumin g that the exciting affair and sex would remain like that if you left your husband and married the new guy.
He may seem to be the guy you have always fantasized about because he is actually still largely a fantasy, and not yet real. As you say - once he got what he wanted, he disappeared and no longer cared about what you wanted. Was that part of your fantasy ?
See a counsllor, first of all opn your own, and then consider with the counsellor whether you could usefully heal your marriage if you worked with your husband in counselling
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