Our expert says:
its good that you have tried to speak to her about it and its even better that you care about her needs as well. i would suggest that you sit her down and explain why her satisfaction is important to you (as you've described above) and see if she would be willing to see a sexual health counsellor/sexologist who can help decrease her anxieties/inhibitions. it is important that she feels comfortable and not pressurised in the bedroom so yourl can always start with light touching etc before moving up the ladder.
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