Our expert says:
Isn't it more fruitful to add to your excellent marriage such extra elements, rather than to cheat on a decent and loving man ? And one can share intellectual interests with many others, without any sexual content at all. You're talking about lust tugging between you --- it isn't any "spiritual" element that makes it hard to be platonic. And I don'tbelieve in "soul mates", a term I think that was invented by romance novelists, and too often used as an excuse for infidelity. Soul mateship, if it exists, is not about sex. And as G says, would you be content if your husband were to reveal to you that he was in the exactly analogous situation ? Giving special privileges o lust, and calling it sould-mateship, calling lust "spiritual" doesn't alter its nature at all. You are eagerly fooling yourself, and it's quite likely that he is similarly fooling you.
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