Our expert says:
Why do I get basically this same question so often ? If you don't get the attention you want in your marriage, see a marriage counsellor, not a lover. QWhen 2 married people have an afair, many innocent people get hurt their spouses and children, for a start.
And you ae so kindly, that you have decided to "love him", and "oversee" / overlook his faults - even though he is actively cheating on his wife who mis in a tragic situation, AND cheating on you and her with at least one other woman ( you have no way of knowing whether there were and are others ) ? DO you really think so little of yourself that you feel you deserve this ? And that your husband and his wife, and your children, deserve nothing better than this ?
Can you imagine the plight of his paralysed wife if you take him away from her ?
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