Our expert says:
Nodie, it's high time that his parents, and sister, worked on growing up, and trying to learn to be independent. he is married to You, and not to them, and they should stop being greedy. It sounds like your husband has begun trying to deal with this, but as if he's scared to actually confront them ( probably due to years of brainwashing by them when he was a child ). if he talks to them about it, they ought to go right ahead and "take it personally" ---this IS personal, and they are happilly intruding on your married lives, for purely and totally selfish reasons --- that's as "personal" as it gets.
It is THEM who are being unreasonable. So maybe it's not you that needs to see a shrink alone ; but it could be helpful for you and your husband, together, to get into some marriage counselling, including help for him to learn how to be assertive and confront his parents unreasonable expectations.
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