Our expert says:
You are in a difficult situation but ignoring her calls won't really help. The problem with a strong mother figure is that her son will always be in the middle and whatever he does, one of the women in his life will be hurt. Did you tell her that you don't want to be called everyday? The only solution is to discuss this with her and to come to some kind of agreement e.g. that you will meet her halfway, and that you will call her every 2nd day. I also think that you should discuss this with your husband and ask him to assist you in drawing the boundaries, but be flexible with what will make him feel comfortable, otherwise this will cause marriage problems in future. Try taking baby steps in the beginning. I am not a psychologist but this is what I would do! Good luck and try to get the opinion of cybershrink too?
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