Posted by: daughter in law | 2008/10/02

in laws

my inlaws live about 2 houses from me. what bothers me is that they don' t come and visit us. the other daughter in law that lives a couple of hours away sees them more. we never had an argument or anything but I can' t understand why don' t come and visit us. If u don' t invite them they don' t come. but they constantley visit our neighbours. It irritates the ****** out of me.

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HAve you tried gently telling them that this bothers you, and that you're so pleased to see them visit ? What does your husband think of this ? Its uncommon to meet someone who wants to see more, rather than less, of her in-laws

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Posted by: nnnnnnn | 2008/10/07

irratable so what u tell me is that their son means nothing to them aswellll.? oh come on... mother in laws are os scared of losing their little baby boys.....

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Posted by: irritable | 2008/10/03

Why don' t you go and visit them - your behaviour just makes me sick - you just like dramatising everything - you are nothing to them - just someone they know - so what, or maybe they don' t enjoy your company!!!!!!!

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Posted by: ME | 2008/10/02

Maybe you should encourage them to come and visit you guys even if you didn' t invite them. Ask them to, if you really concerned

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Posted by: ME | 2008/10/02

I would be happy if I were you. In-laws just make the situation difficult.

How does your DH feel about this?

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